Dying is God’s way to remind us that life is temporary here on Earth

Dying is normal. We think of that. We say that it is part of life.  However, dying gives so much pain to the love ones of the dead person.  It is a pain that no one can understand except those who are left behind.  I am afraid that I can’t be as strong as I can if someone that I love dies.

I am going to share my experience as someone who goes to wake or funeral whenever our rental service is needed. Based from my experiences, I have seen a lot who cry so much whenever the deceased person is about to bring to the cemetery. I feel the pain that they suffer.  I think they cry that much because that is the last moment of seeing the physical body of someone who has been part of your life.

As much as they want to look strong, I can feel the pain from their eyes. I don’t want to experience that but God warns us about dying. I know, people will cry but at the end of the day the pain will be gone.

Acceptance is the part of letting go someone’s memory. It’s hard I know but it is the way of life goes. One day, you are with someone that you love but in the next day he/she will vanish. Accepting that fact the life is really uncertain here on earth is must.

Dying is God’s way to tell to us that life is really temporary here on Earth.  I always believe that God has plan for every life that he controls.

Should we be sad when someone dies?

My answer is it’s normal. Crying is normal. Pain is normal.  Sadness is temporary so as happiness.  Our feelings changes every now and then. We just need time to process everything.

I hope that everybody who are reading this will start to appreciate their life. Let’s start expressing how much we love the people who are with us right now. Life is really short. We don’t know when we  are going to leave the earth. Let’s appreciate and do what really matters.

• This topic was modified 4 years ago by Marie Cruz.